The two most common paradigms of the Universe have been and most likely will always be the fact that women are peacocks and that men are pigs. Perhaps a few more eons of time will pass us by and maybe, just maybe we might see a little bit of a shift in that model of the human condition. Until then, to quote a line from "Indiana Jones and the Holy Grail," "...choose wisely." Simply put, choose wisely. The other alternative is a rather bespoke life of the happiness of singleness.